Love figures greatly in each one of our lives. Some of us dream about it, some romanticize
about it, and yet others deny it. Still, it is always a modish topic of discussion. Though
the one ‘right’ person theory may be a myth it does not mean that there is not more than one right person for
you.
So how does one define that all encompassing ‘right’
factor in a partner? Well it might be defined as a sort of compatibility that allows you to flourish and
thrive in each other’s company. It is probably the quality, which makes it a solid team, where it
is not the individual, but the final end, which matters.
Such bonds
are established on far stronger stuff than mere attraction, although attraction is a large and significant part of these bonds.
It is rather based on simple facts of common ideals, dreams, and beliefs. There has always been
a tendency to exalt the entire notion of love in all mediums, including literature, television, film, or theatre.
However, this entirely focuses on that early phase of devotion, passion, and jubilation. But
this stage in real life is short in duration as soon the high is gone and matters more practical must be handled.
So, if one mistakes this initial stage of exhilarating romantic moments for the
actual deal, then it can lead to the downfall of the relationship. Yet this romantic phase serves a fine
purpose in reminding and holding exemplary importance regarding the potential that this relationship can possess when bad
times are nigh. Today, happiness has become such a sought after commodity for which people will do and
believe anything. They will agree to any terms so that they never have to feel pain, be hurt, or get disappointed.
That is why they are ready to jump at and grab any clauses that prevent these in their relationships, and make them work anyhow.
This will ironically make them feel pain, be hurt, or become disappointed in the long run.
That is why so many people today are in a pre-committed state
where they are not married but are going out exclusively with each other. This makes sure that no matter
what, they have the right to exclusivity with one another, but if it does not work out, they are free to go their own separate
ways without dealing with an otherwise messy divorce.